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Grab a cocktail or a mocktail that delights your palate and come into the zoom portal for an open discussion and storysharing celebrating and de-mystifying all things penis. From hard to soft, from the "how-to" to "is this taboo?",  I'll be here to share wisdom, find levity, answer questions, and listen to your tales. This is a 21 and over event, all identities welcome. $10 suggested donation.

Online Gathering Sept 21! Cocktales and Cocktails

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I am so thrilled to be the new hostess of the 3rd Annual Soft Cock Appreciation Week. This is a FREE Online Event and awareness campaign that goes beyond the conventional ED narratives. We broaden the conversations about “whys” and feature alternative thoughts and actions for the “what nows.” When it comes to supporting men’s sexual health and pleasure there is still so much room for improvement and we are here on a mission to help.

Soft Cock Appreciation Week Nov 10-17

I had the joy of haveing Fourteen Fabulous Pre-Recorded Conversations as part of Soft Cock Appreciation Week. They drop 2 a day  Nov 11-17 and will be available year round after that to enjoy at your leisure. Check out the guests and topics here.

Cockversations SCW Season 2

I'm the new hostess/creative director of the "Soft Cock (Appreciation) Week" movement! Check out my intro here and peruse the full site for rich resources and to get involved with 2024's podcast and event!

Soft Cock Week 2024 Intro

Here's a description of me on the new sex positive platform, Lifesexplicit. 

Life Sexplicit Directory Listing

I am proud to be a member of the Global Pelvic Health Alliance Membership. This directory listing has some succinct information about my background and approach for individuals, couples and as part of a care team.

Pelvic Guru Directory Listing

Here's a great conversation that Michelle Renee and I had with the delight-full women of the Shameless Sex Podcast. We discuss reframing "sex", some of my practical tips for soft cocks, the problem with the erectile hardness scale, handling frustration, and much more!

Soft Cock Play-Shameless Sex Podcast 

 In this conversation Michelle Renee asks me about masturbation coaching, my connection to the soft cock topic, practical tips, and so much more!

Masturbation Coaching! Soft Cock Appreciation Week 2023 

The delightful Jesse Fresh asked me to join her for a conversation that is geared towards both individuals struggling with erectile flow issues and those who want to be better partners and allies. Learn how to relax and be playful riding the natural ebbs and flows of the penis.

Behind the Bedroom Doors: "The Pleasure of Playing with C**k"

The amazing Lee Jagger invited me as a guest on her show and we had such an in-depth conversation she broke it into two parts! Listen as we go deep into masturbation! This link sends you to the audio stream and also links to all players.

Rock the Bedroom Podcast- Masturbation Part 1

Rock the Bedroom Podcast- Masturbation Part 2

Not available elsewhere! This was my contribution to 2020's " Pleasure and Resilience Summit," a wonderful collaboration of somatic sex educators who came together to offer something in service during that destabilizing time. A great introduction to my approach to transformational thinking and action.

 Embracing the Erotic in the Everyday as a Habit for Survival

In this rich conversation with hostesses Elle and Jen we talk about my background in embodied neurology, my assessment process, masturbation, attachment and bonding, autism, and premature ejaculation.

Dick-centric Dis-Ease -Strange Bedfellow Podcast Interview 

Dr. Susan Kaye interviews me and we touch on my background as a Sensory-Motor and Waldorf trained educator and how I use that to inform ways I work with transforming adult sexual function concerns. 

A Conversation about my Philosophy and Methodology

Amanda Vee and I have a conversation about my background in somatics and bodywork, practical masturbation coaching tips, and how non-touch sexuality professionals can incorporate some simple, effective somatic tools into their work.

Let's Talk Somatic Bodywork for Sex Coaches-Sex Coach U

This webinar introduces my unique Developmental, Sensory-Motor, and Fascia based approach to working with Erectile Ebb and Flow Concerns using language that is both patient and professional friendly. There is a fee for this webinar that supports the work of the Global Pelvic Health Alliance, a great women-run company promoting better education and support for pelvic health professionals.


GPHAM Webinar for Pelvic Health Professionals and Patients

In this conversation with Sara Vaci we talk about using creative energy for overcoming challenges, tips for transforming anguish, pain and discomfort, and my own journey as both an healing professional and an erotic artist.

How to Be "An Erotic Explorer"-The Sex Manifesto Interview

One of my biggest turn-ons is being part of the creative process. Facilitating artists as they move from sexual, sensual, erotic text into the embodiment of spoken and unspoken energies  deepen the richness of performance allowing the audience to resonate with the work at authentically, intimate levels. I have been part of the phenomenal Eleanor O'Brien's evolution of Plan V as dramaturg and IC over the many iterations, and believe so deeply in what this one-woman show is bringing to the world! 

Intimacy Choreographer and Dramaturg for Dance Naked Creative

This is a podcast episode from the the amazing women of Astromantics who looked to the heavens and told me the stories of my life journey as an erotic being through astrological images and metaphors. This cut straight to the core of who I am as a harbinger of LOVE and Eroticism and helped me greatly to exist in more joy and peace as I feel the cosmos wrapped around me. Super fun to listen to. Get your sex and love chart done too!


Erica Leroye ✨ Sexual Health and Well-Being Guide For Men And Those Who Love Them